"Instead, the fact that sex is supposed to be pleasurable is often omitted from sex talks with teen girls. Teenage girls’ authentic desire — as opposed to the manufactured sexuality that’s integral to Girls Gone Wild or to playing it up for guys — is a touchy subject for most…We’re living in a time when simply talking about women’s pleasure is taboo in itself and is considered dangerous by the virginity movement, since that kind of discussion frees women’s sexuality from its restrictive only-for-procreation, only-when-married, only-when-straight boundaries."

Jessica Valenti, The Purity Myth